induction tomorrow morning after 7am!! ♥ call/text if you want to leave messages. i can't believe finn will be here tomorrow!! YAY!!! ♥

so, i had a good OB appointment today. 4cm dilated. 80% effaced. had the membranes stripped. if finn isn't here by monday, we're inducing! ♥ all is well!! :)

i can't sleep. stupid insomnia.

i'm super itchy. i don't think milo's bubble bath was a good addition to my bath earlier.

and i'm a bit hungry. maybe cheesy tater tots?




blah. and it's sunday.
i have nothing to do today.


i think finn should get with the program and make an entrance into the world!

does anyone know how to sync FROM an iTouch TO iTunes?? like, i want the playlist, applications, etc FROM my iTouch to be on my iTunes...not vice versa. anyone know how to do this?? PLEASE!! ♥






oh, and no. i haven't had finn yet. i blame the progesterone shots i had once a week. i'll probably be pregnant forever now. SIGH.


anywayyyy. helps please?!

so, i'm 3-4 CM dilated!! the doctor is guessing i'll go into labor in the next few days!! yay!! here's hoping for some regular contractions!! ♥ i'm ready to meet my baby boy!!

37 weeks pregnant!! buddha belly alert!!! ♥



my belly is officially BIG!! i can't wait to meet my beautiful baby boy, finn!! ♥







so i'm full term by the books now. 37 weeks. wow.
come on, mister finn!! any day now!!

i am SO. GODDAMN. FRUSTRATED.

tomorrow, ryan and i will be married for ONE YEAR!!!!! ♥ ♥ ♥ and since it's already tomorrow (friday) in korea...happy anniversary to my sweet ryan!!! I LOVE YOU!!! ♥ xoxo


oh, and i really wish that finn would exit my uterus TIME NOW. :/ nothing like taking every precaution possible to keep him in there until 36 weeks...and then him deciding to camp out and stay in there past then!! blah!! i feel like it's time to POP! come on out, finn!!!


and i got a hair cut today. it was more like a trim, but i had my stylist add some fun, choppy layers in the front. so now the red and purple show through quite well and i LOVE it!! :)



that's about all of the interesting things that i have to contribute to my dear journal today.
peace. out.

it's officially sunday, which means...

i'm 36 weeks pregnant!! finn and i made it! to our goal!! to "full term"!

yay! yay! yay!

ryan and i placed bets on when we think the baby will be born.
so now we're waiting to see if either of us are right! haha.



i'm excited!! and no more blasted progesterone shots in the butt/hip once a week! those fuckers hurt!

and everything is ready. :)

so to my sweet baby finn, any time you are ready, my love, you can be born. ♥

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hey everyone,

sorry to send such a depressing email...but the link above is to an article covering the story a friend's death from girdwood, alaska.
she had been suffering from migraine headaches. when she went for a hike, she started getting a horrendous headache and died a while later.
what a surprising and devastating way to die. i especially feel for the friend hiking with her who performed CPR for hours in hopes of saving sarah. :(

the comments to the story are just as important at the story.
as a friend of sarah's and as a migraine sufferer, i am deeply affected by this death.

i don't know how many of you suffer from migraines...but even though i have suffered for years, i have never been told by a doctor the important news that if someone who
suffers from migraines suddenly starts have headaches that are worse than the "usual" migraines or the symptoms suddenly change that a trip to the ER could save your life.
hemorraging, stroking out, and bleeding out are unfortunately things that migraine sufferers are more at risk for. and i wouldn't want to know these scary facts and not pass
them on to someone who may also be a migraine sufferer.
so please, pay attention to your symptoms. and take a trip to the ER if something doesn't feel right. please.

love,
bethany

and i'm DONE!! finn's nursery is finished!!! ♥

i have nothing left to buy for him.

i can officially slumber my life away until he decides to arrive!!
anytime after sunday so that he's 36 weeks! hooray!!


finn's crib is officially ready for him. ♥



right at the end of my bed, so that's he's close to mama. ♥

THREE THINGS!!! and then finn's nursery will be fully prepared for his arrival!! i've been nesting my lil' heart out. so much fun! so today i will find a mobile for the crib, a changing pad for his changing table, some spare crib sheets...and i will probably pick up diapers and wipes, too! always need more of those around!! ♥ i have a sense of peace and calm. everything is ready for his arrival. ♥





i feel so...prepared.

the only things missing from my house are ryan and milo.
ryan will be here in 37 days.
milo will visit sooner than that. ♥

wearing my amber necklace again the past few days has done remarkable things to calm me.
i have a sense of peace, calm, and well-being. (i stopped wearing it when ryan bought me the tiffany's necklace for mother's day. but he told me he misses seeing me with the pretty amber necklace from him. it has so much more character. just like me. hah.)

i was in the hospital tonight for my weekly progesterone shot.
the doctor convinced me to stay to be hooked up to some monitors to watch the baby. and to watch my contractions. she ran some tests as well.
it turns out that i have yet ANOTHER bacterial infection. apparently, having one of these fuckers during pregnancy opens the door of susceptibility WIDE OPEN for more infections to return. or to quote my doctor, "it's a natural bacteria normally in the vagina. however the PH of pregnancy throws off the PH balance and the bacteria can overgrow and throw a rave party in the vagina." LMAO.

the doctor thinks this infection is causing/contributing to my contractions. so i'm back on anti-biotics. oh joy.

and the GOOD NEWS???
on sunday i will be 36 weeks pregnant!!
that means that finn and i made it to our goal date!! ♥
he is officially allowed to be born as a full term baby after that point!

hooray!!!

i'm excited. nervous. and happy to have made it to term.

okay, i'm worried. and i feel like a huge idiot.

what if i don't know that i'm in labor in time?
with milo, i didn't realize i was in labor until i was already 6cm dilated. seriously.
we showed up at the hospital and i had him two hours later.

i'm worried that the same thing will happen again this time. or worse.

i just can't tell what the hell is going on with my body. :(
i've been having contractions for like a week. so that isn't a signal.
my water never broke with milo. it only breaks in 15% of pregnancies. so that may not be a signal.
i have cramps now, but the last time i went in with cramps it was nothing. so. um. yeah.

so i feel really stupid. and worried.
and i don't know what to do about it.

i don't want to be the pregnant girl that called wolf 300 times. you know? which is what i'll feel like if i go into labor and delivery to be checked more than once or twice. so i'm just sitting here worrying myself instead.

any advice. or help???

i have a new hero in my life. ashley zarr. ♥ she is gonna be my 100% no-matter-what birthing partner. i have so much love for this friend. and she even has a 2 week old baby girl of her own. she is obviously awesome.

i'm really high and floating from taking a ton of midrin pills for migraines today plus ambien in hopes of sleepint it all away. now here i am, awake and fucking STONED. i can't even walk without weaving all over the place and hallucinating like mad crazy. hahaha.

i'm pretty amused. but i woke up starving and craving pizza. i want pizza at holdens. but here are mad people over there right now. i don't think i could handle that right now. too fucking OUT OF REALITY. and not in the chill stoned way. more like the tripped out way.

don't think i can handle trying to find the place he orders from then calling and having to have a normal conversation. and payment information? oh fucking hell. hahaha. so confusing. :P

so instead i ate a chocolate ice cream cone. and i'm listening to some tranced out underground hip hop from back in the day. it's quite enjoyable.


in other news. milo was here.
loved seeing my big boy.
he is such a crack up. so full of life and energy.
i love him so much.
we bad a really good visit together. <3
i wish he could have stayed longer than two days.
but his dad drove him down 8 hours from fairbanks.
and must go back to work tomorrow. boo.
milo is so stoked to be a big brother.
he wants to meet the baby now. too cute. :)

while milo's dad, jeff, was here...we went and bought a baby swing.
yay!! such a relief for me to finally have a baby swing!
it's appalling how expensive baby swings are!
i found one of the super nice ones on sale though! plus i had a coupon!
super score!! it was like 55 dollars off. yes!
so milo helped jeff and i put it together.
it's rather cute. though it will be much cuter with a baby finn in it!
i can't wait!!

stay in my uterus just one more week finn! i'm 35 weeks today!
he's "allowed" to be born and considered "full term" at 36 weeks! :) next sunday!! <3
i've been having "real" and painful contractions for a few days now though.
so we'll see what happens this week. :)

okay, i'm too high on prescriptions to function anymore. typing. and thoughts. beyond me.


xoxo,
bee

Damn. Michael Jackson and Farrah Fawcett died. What a day. :/

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wow. elliott smith's car for sale.

i wish i lived closer to texas...alaska is just a bit far. especially when i'm less than two weeks away from delivering my sweet baby. darn!

i would love to own this beauty.

xoxo

so i was taking some mail out to the mailbox a few minutes ago...
and i had a good laugh.

there were two boys, probably around the ages of 7-9, i think (i'm terrible with guessing ages)
so the boys had a scooter, a bike, and a skateboard and were taking turns on all three in the middle of the street.

boy one took the bike and gave it a good shove so that it went flying down the street at good speed all by itself, and it went quite a good distance.
boy two says "holy fucking hell! that's..." and trails off as he sees me in my yard watching them.
boy two blushes and says, "excuse me for my language. it's just..." and trails off to a whisper.

it was SO CUTE!!!

i was like "it's okay. that was pretty impressive!"
boy two says, "yeah it was!"

LOLZ.
kids are so cute sometimes.

i just thought it was adorable that a little boy apologized to me for swearing. awwww.

i was quite amused. :)

dammit. i tried calling the mental health clinic at the military hospital...

this is where i was seeing a lovely psychiatrist for awhile.
but then i up and bailed on her because my life was getting so hectic that i couldn't deal with having at least one doctor's appointment each week with psych and OB and more.

after this week. especially last night...i need to see her. ASAP.
i want to make an appointment for today if at all possible.
i tried calling (at 3:40 AM) in hopes of reaching a voicemail system, but no such luck.

dammit. so now what?
i already have an OB appointment today, so i think that when my alarm goes off for that...i'll call mental health, explain my situation, and BEG for an appointment.

sigh. i feel like a big fuck-up.

things were so bad last night that i sent ryan an emergency message.
(despite the fact that his company is on the DMZ on north korea's border until tomorrow, so it's really dangerous.)
he used another soldier's cell phone to call me.
i hysterically bawled while panicking at full force. trying to explain to him what i was feeling. how i wanted to destroy myself to make it stop. to make myself feel real again. to be able to deal.
i think i scared him pretty badly.
he was trying really hard to convince me to call for an ambulance.
mostly because i was having a lot of trouble breathing. and also because i was fighting the urge to self-destruct pretty goddamn hard.
talking to him calmed me down immeasurably.
but i promised him that if i started panicking in full force again that i would either call an ambulance or drive myself to the ER for help.
oh, the embarrassment that would involve.

i need help.
i've been on the verge of a breakdown all week.
and here it is.

fucking fantastic. </3